Thai Dating Sites

How to Find a Beautiful Thai Lady (Not a Bar Girl)?

Professional bar girls chatting with their foreign sponsors?Thai bar girls work for money – fair enough. That’s the reason they have come to Pattaya for and entered the “sex trade” in the first place. And just like you should know that you cannot buy love, every bar girl knows that she cannot “eat” love – nor does a romantic love affair with a Western guy without pecuniary profits support her kids and family upcountry.
Consequentially, the average bar girl’s expectation of a long-term relationship with a “wealthy” foreigner is primarily restricted to the prospect of a steady income from a regular visitor (a.k.a. sponsor) who provides monthly financial support from abroad. In other words: No money, no honey.
But there’s another famous saying in Pattaya’s bar scene: “It may be easy to get a girl out of a bar but impossible to get the bar out of the girl.” In many cases of love affairs between Farangs and former bar girls, this is unfortunately all too true – and a permanent source of interpersonal problems. In addition, how would you like the idea of having an ex-prostitute as your girlfriend or wife? For many Western men, the delicate working background of ex-bar girls might also pose a psychological problem.

"Pretties" on Jomtien beachBut where to meet a “normal” Thai girl who has never worked in a bar and isn’t dating you just because you’ve paid her bar fine? Let’s face it, it can be a little tricky to find a nice Thai lady in a “normal” environment that actually wants to go out with you. Many “normal” Thai women may either shy away from getting chatted up by Farangs or may simply not be interested in dating Westerners – also due to social prejudice. Unless you can speak some Thai – a skill which can surely help “melt the ice” in the beginning – the language barrier is often another obstacle when trying to establish contact with a Thai lady in an everyday situation, for example, in a shopping mall or club.
Now there’s a genuine alternative for foreign men in search of introduction platforms other than beer bars or Gogo bars. If you wish to date attractive Thai girls and women, most of whom have never worked in the sex trade and might have more serious than just financial ambitions and playing the “sex in exchange for money” game, then dating sites may offer a genuine alternative for you.

With Thai women being more internet-savvy and familiar with dating or social networking sites these days, there are now literally tens of thousands of beautiful single Thai women seeking friendship, dating, romance, and possibly marriage with Western men, online rather than by working in a bar – a job that usually comes with extreme social stigma.
Many of these girls are students from Bangkok and single women from Isaan, hailing from exotic provinces like Buriram, Khon Kaen or Udon Thani. But there are ladies from virtually all over Thailand, from all walks of life and age-groups looking for romantic dates with Farangs. If you don’t enjoy traveling, most girls will be happy to visit you at your place over the weekend – though it can obviously also be loads of fun to travel to the Thai countryside every now and then and visit the girls in their hometowns.
Also, if you shouldn’t be really keen on getting married or entering a serious love affair – but simply wish to find a casual sex partner – many girls not only understand but share this desire for sex without commitments. So if you’re seeking your Thai soulmate and possible future wife, or just a “special friend” for occasional meeting with a more serious working or educational background than bar girls, then dating sites might provide the perfect solution for you – as long as you use common sense.

Cute ladyboy on Walking Street in PattayaOn a side note: If bar hopping and street hookers aren’t your kind of thing and you’re curious to date a Thai ladyboy that doesn’t work in a bar, or you simply seek a more discrete encounter with a ladyboy, you may also want to try your luck with dating sites that focus exclusively on ladyboy dating.
Especially if this should be a “first time” for you and you’re still a bit shy or indecisive, popular ladyboy dating sites such as Thai Friendly and offer a risk-free opportunity to make yourself more familiar with what might be your secret object of desire?

Let’s just add a brief word of warning at this point: While most women on dating sites may be looking for genuine relationships or simply non-paid casual sex with a foreign guy, there are obviously also legions of “gold diggers” and quasi-prostitutes who use dating platforms simply to find “sponsors” or lure customers for paid sex encounters.
Sure, payment may often be disguised as gifts and be less blunt than in encounters with bar girls. And yes, many professional “gold diggers” may be looking for long-term financial security provided by a foreign “sponsor” rather than direct cash payments in exchange for sexual services. But in the end, candidly speaking, it’s still all about money for these ladies rather than genuine love affairs. So if you’re new to dating sites, make sure you avoid such gold diggers who use the Internet just as an alternative to prostituting themselves in a bar.

""Pretty" on Jomtien beachNow that you’ve landed on this page, you’ve most likely had a crack at it before – if not, just give it a try. When searching for “Thai dating sites” or related popular keywords on the Internet, dozens of (more or less useless) search results will pop up within seconds. “Useless” because many of the sites listed there simply won’t deliver what you’re looking for. Due to low membership rates, poor design and lack of features, most simply aren’t worth joining at all. Except for the hugely popular DateInAsia website and perhaps ThaiXOXO, this applies all the more to sites promising totally free-of-charge services.
As anywhere else in business – and dating sites have become a virtual industry in the past decade – “you get what you pay for” and it’s often smarter to rely on well-established services rather than put your faith in dodgy ventures that might eventually simply turn out to be a (financial and emotional) disappointment for you, the client.

Dating sites listed below have all heavily invested in promoting their services and have high (female) membership rates; which guarantees that you won’t have to search for very long to find an attractive and suitable partner. They all provide exciting features like live chat rooms, instant messenger services, member videos and photo galleries. So it’s easy to test the waters before you meet someone in person.
All dating sites listed here are free to join; this means you can browse thousands of profiles and personal ads free of charge and just for fun. Some sites may require that you upgrade your member account to paid membership status if you wish to contact other members directly. Then again, membership fees are extremely low when compared with the running costs (like overpriced lady drinks, bar fines etc.) of seeking a romantic relationship in the cash-oriented twilight zone of Pattaya’s shady nightlife districts. Think it over – it’s a win-win game.

Recommended Thai Dating Sites

With more than one million active members and thousands of single Thai women online at any given time, is the largest Thai dating site connecting Thai singles seeking friendship, dating, romance and marriage. If you’re hoping to meet the woman to make your wife, find a Thai lady for romance and dating, or just to hook up with a cute Thai girl for chat and friendship, this could be the perfect platform for you.
Join for free, create your own profile and add up to five photographs, so other members can get a complete picture of you. You can browse thousands of profiles and contact any number of paying members simply by signing up for free standard membership. With no hidden extra charges, you’ll have unlimited opportunities to initiate and receive communication from a growing database of paying members via email or instant messaging.
Other features include photo galleries, translation services etc. Offering all new members free standard membership, you can test-drive ThaiCupid and make sure it’s right for you.

Find friends and more at the biggest free Thai dating is the most popular free dating site in Thailand with more than four hundred new Thai personals profiles made every day of the week and more than 160,000 single Thai girls in total, all looking for new friends or to start a relationship with a Western guy. At any given time, there are thousands of members online, so regardless of where you stay in Thailand you should always easily find a cute girl to hook up with in your area. boasts a remarkably high female membership rate due to the fact that they also offer Thai language to make it easier for Thai girls who do not speak much English to sign up. That’s certainly a big bonus for male users!
ThaiFriendly provides many exciting means of getting in touch with Thai women, including messaging, video chat, showing interest, comments on pictures and profiles. And the best thing: It’s genuinely free to join and send and receive messages with lovely Thai ladies.
On a side note: If you’re curious about getting to know a ladyboy, meeting a sexy LB is now also extremely with While the site was originally started for expatriates looking for love with Thai ladies, there are now also thousands of very active Thai ladyboys that will be vying for your attention!

With over two million members from Thailand, the Philippines, China, Vietnam, and many other Asian countries, and tens of thousands of (female) singles online every day, is the largest and most trusted Asian dating website, designed to assist its members find their true Asian love.
Join for free, create your own profile and add up to five photographs, so other members can get a complete picture of you. You can browse thousands of profiles and contact any number of paying members simply by signing up for a free standard membership. With no hidden extra charges, you’ll get unlimited opportunities to initiate and receive communication from a growing database of paying members via email or instant messaging.
Do you love being part of an interactive online dating community? Then you can join their fully functional, busy and interactive chat rooms. With hundreds of singles online every day, you can be sure to meet the perfect Asian chat partner, regardless of where in the world they may be.

Ladyboy Dating Sites

Thai Friendly Ladyboy Dating

Thai Friendly is currently the most popular site for meeting cute ladyboys online in Thailand and a perfect gateway to get a taste of their fascinating world. Thai Friendly has an easy-to-use interface and literally hundreds of sexy LBs from all over Thailand online at any given time.
Even as a free member, you can send up to one message every 10 minutes to a ladyboy cutie of your choice. Or you upgrade your account to premium membership and gain access to an almost unlimited supply of hot Thai ladyboy contacts. Why not give it a try?

Ladyboy datingIf you’re more serious about your “ladyboy adventure” and wish to date a “normal” Thai ladyboy that doesn’t work in a bar or strip club, is another genuine platform for meeting decent Thai ladyboys that want to hook up with foreign guys and don’t just want your money.
So if A-GoGo bars, street hookers and the “pay for play” scene are not your thing, but you seek a more serious date with a “normal” Thai ladyboy beyond the limitations and stereotypes of Thailand’s sex industry, might provide you with an interesting alternative.
Same as on Thai Friendly, it’s free to sign up and create your profile. You can then browse thousands of other profiles of single ladyboys not only in Thailand but all over Asia and beyond. Once you upgrade your account to premium membership you can send and receive an unlimited amount of messages and correspond with thousands of ladyboy members.

19 Responses to Thai Dating Sites

  1. Thank you for the info on this page, I am a long time member of Thaifriendly and have met many guenuine, and beautiful Thai ladies, I am currently in Pattaya to meet ladies, and have found myself looking in the Malls and along the Beach Rd. I do not drink so do not go near the bars so much. For me I find this easy to start up a relationship for one night or even longer, a good lady will, if she is treated nice want to spend more time with you. And it always seems a pleasure to help them out with some cash or shopping for personal things they may want to wear, most cases to look nice and sexy for you. And sex is usually involved, and good feeling of fun and happy times for all involved.

    • Not entirely or if you want to use all the features, no. But it’s free to sign up and create a profile, and usually also to send some messages etc. If you want to use all the features and unlimited access you will need some kind of paid membership package, which is still pretty cheap in my opinion. I’m in a relationship so not using dating sites myself, but I’ve got a couple of mates who use paid as well as free dating sites all the time to find their girls. One has found a lady in a management position, with whom he had a two-year relationship. Another mate who is 65 now just looks for girls for occasional non-paid encounters – and he’s usually quite successful. In the end, even if these sites are not completely free if you want to use all the features and make the most of them, it’s still a lot cheaper than looking for girls in the pay-for-play scene. Just go out one night in Pattaya, buy a couple of lady drinks, pay the bar fine etc. and you will easily spend 2,000 to 3,000 baht, that’s if you’re just looking for a one-night stand.

  2. Hi,

    Great article. Maybe you would like to check our new site Soulmatify:

    We also start to fill it with girls from asian countries.

    Its still small we just started but we are the first site to give away shopping vouchers to our female members.

    Its free for both, male and female.

    Regards from Germany

  3. Hello,
    I met my partner on Thai Love Links (TLL). I found the experience very pleasurable dating online. I recommend this site.

    • Hi Jon , my name is Paul and I’ve read your comments . Just wanting to know , the site that use used did it have hidden costs involved as a lot of them do ? And are all the girls on there genuine
      Cheers Paul

      • 1) In general, if you wish to use all features (which isn’t really necessary with most sites) you’ll have to pay for premium membership. I would suggest you just give it a (free) try and then see if upgrading makes sense in your case or not? 2) As far as I know, yes, the girls are genuine. Having said that, there’s always a chance of meeting a gold digger; but that’s an absolute minority.

        • Hey thanx for that it’s greatly appreciated . I’ll try what you say and see how I go . It’s just all the site here in Australia are scams , charge like wounded bulls and most of the ladies aren’t genuine. Love to meet a nice genuine Thai lady

  4. Hi, I just broke up with my thai girlfriend who I met while I was travelling there 2 years ago. We were having a long distance relationship while I lived in the UK.

    I’m looking to find a new thai girlfriend (genuine, not a bar girl etc) and was wondering are these online dating websites catered for guys who are living abroad rather than in thailand at the time?

    I want to get to know the right girl online and then make the trip out to Thailand..

    Many thanks

    • Yes, why not? Even if you’re an expat living in Thailand, many of the women on dating sites live in the provinces and you would usually chat with them for a while and try to get to know them better before eventually meeting up in the “real” world. If I was you though I wouldn’t focus on just one girl (she might turn out to be a disappointment when you meet her face-to-face) but “bookmark” so-to-say at least two or three before travelling to Thailand. Good luck!

  5. Thai Cupid is a absolute must-have.

    I recommend everyone that is coming to Thailand to sign up some weeks before they go. That way you can talk up a lot of Thai girls before you come, and make your own little harem of girls before you arrive!

    Yes, you go old school and approach ‘normal’ girls down here, but do you really want to spend your vacation inside shopping malls and hotel lobbies to hunt girls? Or do you want to spend your days on the beach with a girl you met at Thai Cupid before you arrived Thailand!

    Sign up! It’s a gold-mine! 😀

  6. I can’t believe it takes someone to spell this out on here. I wouldn’t recommend dating websites to anyone. Relationships take time to build. There are not many men or women these days out there, when the shit hits the fan end up focusing on assets and money. Anywhere in the world.

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